As a couple having been married for almost ten years, my wife and I never felt boring about our life before we found things changed two years ago. In the last two years, there were some problems emerging between us while we didn’t know what caused these difficulties until I read a passage about swing lifestyle on the line by accident. The article pointed out that many couples try to make changes in bedroom to make life interesting again in their middle age. I finally found out that we had all sorts of problems because our sex life wasn’t as harmonious as it used to be.
It also noted that for most couples, change is not easy but necessary. Generally speaking, couples will lead happier lives as long as they trust each other and keep their partners at arm’s length in the relationships they will be involved in. After reading this article, I continued to search for others with the same topic on the Internet, and I found that there were a lot of things I could learn. Then, I came to my wife asking her directly if she is willing to have something special to have some fun, such as a tinder for threesome dating, and she said yes immediately. I was surprised a lot since I never expect things could go so smoothly and my wife told me she is always an open-minded woman. To be honest, I was a little ashamed at that time, because I felt as if I didn’t know her very well all the time.
Since then, we had opened up a new way of life, which made us have more new topics. We started looking for local couples on various websites and mobile apps, couples with the same aspirations as us. Although at the beginning, the process was not very smooth for many reasons, we still found several potential swinger couples in a short time. Although they all live near us, we listen to a lot of advice shared by other people on the line and we didn’t rush to meet them. Through the message function on the websites and apps, we had conversations with them to improve our understanding of each other. It was only when we thought the time was right that we invited one of them on a formal date with a couple who seemed right for us.
As we got to know each other better, our first date was pretty good on the whole. After that, we went on two or three dates every month or so, and we all had our own ideas about how to adapt to this particular and a little wild lifestyle. If you’re willing to try, we highly recommend starting right away.